I have said this to myself many a times. Why is it so easy to change things that are of no importance and the things that really jar me, seem almost impossible to get rid of? I have been pondering and trying to devise ways to deal with these issues for months: with some issues years! When it dawned on me the other day, I just hadn’t really wanted to get rid of those nagging habits. I was getting a chemical hit off of those habitual thought patterns. In other words I was addicted to the emotional hit I was getting off an attitude. Like a junkie I was addicted to the chemicals released in my body every-time I thought a certain way, and although I had said to my self over and over again that I wanted to be free of them: I had not been honest. As you have noticed I haven’t spelt out exactly what some of those addictive thought patterns were. I don’t think it is important to spell them out. We all have attitudes that limit us from being greater and more powerful. The point of this post is just to highlight a realization that I had and maybe you may find it useful.
The real insight I had as I stated earlier, was that I hadn’t really wanted to give up my addiction to the chemicals that I was getting a hit off via destructive attitudes. (Check out Molecules of Emotion: The Science Behind Mind-Body Medicine by Candace Pert, for a greater understanding of the connection between thoughts and emotions). I say this because when I really decide to change due to finding a better way of being, then I am very willful, in regard to holding onto that course of action. When you really want to give up something YOU GIVE IT UP PERIOD! It just gets to a point were you say enough is enough: I just won’t do that again I am sick of it. This new mind set has come about not due to a state of abstinence but from a state of gluttony, one has gorged oneself to the point of being sick and that sickness becomes one’s salvation: ENOUGH OF THAT: IT IS FINISHED.
Yet one needs to find the information that will help one to upgrade: by discovering new ways of being. I have find no greater teacher in this respect than Ramtha… but mark my words he is not for everyone… if you don’t really want to change then look elsewhere! I have discovered that being willful means come hell or high water nothing is going to change my mind: I have found a better way of being. For having let go of things in the past, I know it brings about greater freedom and more POWER.
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